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Problem
It is very difficult to get out of every problem
in our lives or otherwise we won’t have
any work left to do in our lives and that’s
the reason Almighty has given problem to every
one, whom He trusts. We have to fight; to
get rid of problem no-1, 2, and 3 and so on
till the end of our lives and the meaning
of life is more or less the same.
Having plenty of problems means Almighty want
to draw your attention towards Him often,
because all the time when you will fight,
you will remember Him, pray to Him and seek
help from Him. You know very few of us really
understand the meaning of problem but everybody
seeks for a good and a favourable solution
for oneself. Why so? Solutions are embedded
in the problem itself but very few can distinguish
it. We feel ourselves tired, in pain, when
we are in problem our face values change and
the reverse, when we find a solution. So,
don’t you think, life is like a pendulum
and you have to go through it, by any means
possible.
Fighting with the problems is the best and
the most suitable solution. You don’t
have to borrow anything to fight for it; neither
do you need someone to fight for you. It is
always good, to analyse your problem with
best of your skills and put yourself solely
responsible, for its solution also. As the
problem are yours so, you should get the credit
for your efforts in getting the solution.
When we find ourselves in a problem, it’s
human nature that we share our pain with someone
or everyone. Without realizing this, that
what does he make of you? How much positive
is he, with you? How much concern, does he
have for you, with your problem? But we waste
our time, in explaining to everyone, whom
we come across in our life, and very few come
forward to guide us or listen to us, with
an open heart. Otherwise a problem remains
the problem and you are said to be the creator
of the problem. If you seek for a good solution,
for yourself then why don’t you analyse
the problem yourself? If you define the problem,
then you are having the best solution for
it too. If you understood the cause of the
problem then nobody else in this world can
give a better reply for it, than you.
We feel light, when we discuss our problem
and feel heavy, when we have a problem but
how do we feel, when we get the solution,
lighter or lightest or none. I think it is
none because on getting the solution, we just
become happy and forget all that heaviness
or lightness, which we had felt during the
problem.
Finding the solution or having a good discussion
to get a solution is the best effort to resolve
the problem. Problem in itself has a very
limited arena but we take it beyond boundaries,
because of the evil that is inside us. Nothing
is permanent in this life, so, how could a
problem be so? Things are like this; people
don’t want to have a healthy discussion
otherwise a healthy discussion is more or
less a partial solution. If we are able to
understand the problem, I think we are very
near to its solution. Calling for a meeting
for having a discussion is same as challenging
the problem, but getting a result from the
discussion solely depends upon, how much open
you are to others opinions? You have to lose
something, to get the solution. If you will
not lose, how could he get or if he will not
lose how could you get?
Basically, it is only the changing of platform,
for a better present, future and to kill the
evil past. With the problem, you won’t
live happy neither will you die happy. So,
why don’t you leave it for the two?
Sometimes fighting for your right becomes
the only solution at that moment, if you do
not fight, they will consider you as coward
and cowards are never given their rights willingly.
So, when fighting is the only solution of
the problem then it is better to fight, till
your death and to prove that nothing can be
imposed on you forcibly.
If your soul is not allowing you, never compromise
with anything. It is better to see the result
of your action than to feel or think at the
last stage of your life, that if you would
have done this, what would have been the result,
and at that moment you will only feel sorry
for your late decision. Don’t you think
so?
Sometimes we do understand the problem but
we never discuss with the person with which
it is associated. We think that time will
tell his mistakes to him and we keep on viewing,
analysing the problems without discussing
with the concerned person. We feel, he could
be hurt; he could take me wrong, my good relation
with that person would get spoiled, because
of this; we start hiding his mistakes, problems
and inviting problems for ourselves.
Living with the problem and with the person
and not even telling him/her, is same as stabbing
your love on his back, because if you love
him, you would be the first to tell him/her
and if he/she loves you, then he/she will
definitely put his brain to think, why you,
the most important person in his/her life,
has said so, is really something wrong with
him/her. Persons who are close to others can
see mistakes, problems clearly and have the
solutions for it too. But it is always good
to tell, the mistakes and problems on the
face and to make him/her realize that you
don’t want to see him/her in a difficult
situation tomorrow, so be aware today.
Find it, get it and solve it, before it dissolves
you, in itself. Fighting with one or two is
easier than to fight with many. Never lose
your brain or temperament while fighting otherwise
it will be an addition of one more problem
in your life. You are not the one who is fighting
with it, but you are among many, who are doing
so? If you do not fight, you will be crushed
by it. Your identity could be in danger so
to save yourself or if you love yourself,
just do it and feel happy with the result.
Very few of us have this zeal to fight; otherwise
many of us compromise with the problem just
to avoid another. The two have different meaning,
different direction and different results
too. Now only you could better reply, which
one you want to opt?
Sometimes compromise is the best solution
of any problem but it should be taken as healthy,
otherwise it won’t last long and you
will fight again. People who are not clear
from their heart will never have a healthy
solution for their problem, so again we have
to judge ourselves and to find, is there something
wrong with me, am I totally right, am I responsible
for it, or am I the problem itself? If you
find yourself responsible for the problem
just come forward and become the solution
too, before it becomes too late and you find
yourself no where. |
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