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Human
Values
It is the bitter fact of our life that, we
live this life unknowingly and our soul leave
us one day without telling or making us realize
the meaning of our life.
People, whom we came across in our lives,
were sometimes good, sometimes bad, but we
never judge ourselves, is it not true? We
always try to find mistakes of others, we
always try to poke our nose in the matters
of others but we never put ourselves in front
of the mirror to judge, who am I, who are
they and what for are we fighting? We always
give judgment for others and prove our superiority
to others, but do we really justify our soul
that we are only a tiny particle in this universe
and nothing more.
You know there are only two types of persons
in this world, bad and the worst. Why I wrote
so, because nobody can say that he hadn’t
done anything wrong in his life, willingly
or unwillingly. It is only the perception
of life and our own understanding of good
and evil.
We always want more than our requirement,
we feel hungry with our stomachs full. Why
so? Do you have an answer? When we expect
more than our expectation, it means we are
selfish and want to kill the opportunity of
others. Sometimes all the things are not meant
for us or useful to us but still; we won’t
give to others, who are in real need. It shows,
how mean we are? Things, which are not useful
to us, could be obsolete for us, but still,
we won’t give to others. Why so? We
always expect from others but we never give
others without interest.
Thanks and sorry are the two words, we readily
use in our day-to-day life, from morning to
night, but we never understand the meaning
of the two, never. We use them as appropriate
words to complete the scenario, nothing more
than this. If we really understand the meaning
of the two, things of joy and sorrow will
definitely come in shape of tears in our eyes,
don’t you think so? It’s true.
The two words are not only words; they have
the relation with your heart and soul. You
are incomplete without them. Saying thanks
or sorry is immaterial, if you don’t
know the meaning of the two. But still we
use them, to complete the phrase, to complete
the sentence, to complete our obligation,
but we use them for our need and to cheat
others, to take advantage of their emotions,
for our sake, for our need. This is not less
than the ditch, which we give to others and
ourselves. We have no right to use such words
by which, we appear to others as supportive
and positive, but the fact is something else.
We have to be clear, like still water. Do
we really justify by using them, for our need
to get out of the problem or to reach a quick
solution. We could start a new life, by saying
thanks or could end our relation by saying
sorry. The two have a depth of an ocean, vast
as a sky so, we need to think twice, while
using them, because we don’t have the
right to hurt anyone.
Relation
We start our life at “A” and till
we attain at “Z” we come across
many relations in our life. Some of them are
personal, some are official, and we have different
definitions for the two. But very few of us
do really understand the “R” of
the relation. Why so? To keep a person in
our life or to maintain the relation, just
for the sake of obligation has no meaning,
not at all. We live in illusion and want to
remain in illusion, we never try to come out
of it, but by mistake, if some day something
happens to us, we feel shattered for that
person, whom we had been loving most in our
life, who told us the definition of life,
definition of relationship. Why do we wait
to know the answer from others, instead find
it on our own. The person, who will answer
you, may be more stupid than you, then why
do you not prove yourself wise, in time, without
losing anything and feel happy that you have
saved yourself from getting cheated, from
someone, whom you know.
Whomsoever we meet in our life, in our day-to-day
work, we always try to develop a positive
relationship with them, feel secured with
them, never in our dream, we think negative
of them and that is now one start to trust,
and have faith on a good human being. If we
exercise our analytical brain and think about
the symbol of negative, it is “-”
and the symbol of positive, it is “+”,
so if you want to make positive, you have
to make negative first, don’t you think
so? Meaning that, if you make him negative
first, you will be safe, because if at all
he was negative, you already knew of it and
if it was positive, there was nothing to harm
you. This doesn’t mean you develop negativity
in you but since precaution is always better
than cure, you have your right to put yourself
in safe hands by analyzing the two identities.
Strategies are meant for us, principles and
policies are made by us, for our own benefit.
Only few in this world want to help without
seeking anything in return. We say that, he
is a good person and for the same, bad, when
we get cheated by the same, we feel disgusted,
because it is very difficult to believe that,
whom we knew to be good is bad, because when
we feel ourselves cheated by the same person,
we find ourselves no where.
We cannot apologize to ourselves, because
it was our trust, our faith and our relation,
with that person, and more or less, we are
solely responsible for whatever happened with
us. It is never too late now, to think again
that, who am I? Who are you? And the reason
for which we are together.
How much do I understand myself at that moment,
of my life, what should I think of myself,
for my trust and for my mistake, which I did
by trusting you, only trusting you. Only feeling
ashamed of myself that I trusted you. It’s
never too late, to think again the “R”
of the relation and have the answers of all
the questions. If you sought for a healthy
relation, this doesn’t mean everybody
would have healthy senses too. So, before
getting involved with anyone in your life,
think twice because you can be wrong. |
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